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Classic · Nonfiction, Self Help, Business

How to Win Friends and Influence People

by Dale Carnegie
1936 · 276 pages · Nonfiction
Critics' pick · Lifetime bestseller
≈ 7 hours to read · about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day

What it's about

Dale Carnegie's 1936 guide to getting along with people is built on a few simple, practical principles: show genuine interest in others, remember their names, listen more than you talk, let people save face, and never criticize when you can encourage instead. He illustrates each one with stories of business leaders, presidents and ordinary people whose lives changed when they put these ideas to work.

Why it's worth reading

It's one of the best-selling books of all time because its advice still works, nearly a century later, in jobs, marriages and friendships. It's the foundation of practically every modern book about people skills.

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Good to know

The examples are old-fashioned (lots of 1930s salesmen), but the principles are timeless. It's best read a chapter at a time and put into practice.

By the numbers

89.7Must-Read Score
  • Readers79 out of 100 · counts 42%
  • Critics80 out of 100 · counts 14%
  • Bestseller89 out of 100 · counts 34% (its stronger lane)
  • Buzz0 out of 100 · counts 10%

Critics and Bestseller are two ways to earn a place: a book's stronger one counts more. Buzz rewards recent bestseller weeks and prizes, so older books start at zero. The parts combine into the Must-Read Score, shown on a scale where the best book we found scores 99 and the last book to make the ranking scores 50.

Where it ranks

Why it made the list

Bestseller
One of the best-selling books ever (about 37 million copies)#1 New York Times bestseller (32 weeks at #1)
On the lists
TIME All-TIME 100 NonfictionGuardian 100 Best Nonfiction Books of All Time

Reads as

Thought-provoking, Practical

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Quick answers

Is How to Win Friends and Influence People worth reading?

Yes. It's one of the best-selling books of all time because its advice still works, nearly a century later, in jobs, marriages and friendships. It ranks #39 of the 2,816 books in our ranking, with a Must-Read Score of 89.7 (the best book we found scores 99).

What is How to Win Friends and Influence People about?

Dale Carnegie's 1936 guide to getting along with people is built on a few simple, practical principles: show genuine interest in others, remember their names, listen more than you talk, let people save face, and never criticize when you can encourage instead. He illustrates each one with stories of business leaders, presidents and ordinary people whose lives changed when they put these ideas to work.

How long does it take to read How to Win Friends and Influence People?

About 7 hours (276 pages), or about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day.

What should I read after How to Win Friends and Influence People?

If you liked it, try The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey, Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell or The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt.