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Modern · Nonfiction, Family

Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year

by Anne Lamott
1993 · 251 pages · Nonfiction
Critics' pick
≈ 6 hours to read · about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day

What it's about

Anne Lamott kept a journal through the first year of her son Sam's life. She was thirty-five, newly sober, broke and raising him alone, with the help of friends, her church and her best friend Pammy, who learned during that year that she had cancer. The journal records the colic, the exhaustion and the overwhelming love.

Why it's worth reading

It's on the Modern Library's list of the best nonfiction. It's one of the funniest and most honest books ever written about new parenthood, and Lamott's voice makes even the hard parts warm.

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Good to know

Lamott writes openly about her Christian faith and her sobriety. Pammy's illness gives the book a sad thread alongside the comedy.

By the numbers

77.3Must-Read Score
  • Readers78 out of 100 · counts 42%
  • Critics59 out of 100 · counts 34% (its stronger lane)
  • Bestseller11 out of 100 · counts 14%
  • Buzz0 out of 100 · counts 10%

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Where it ranks

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Quick answers

Is Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year worth reading?

Yes. It's on the Modern Library's list of the best nonfiction. It ranks #583 of the 2,816 books in our ranking, with a Must-Read Score of 77.3 (the best book we found scores 99).

What is Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year about?

Anne Lamott kept a journal through the first year of her son Sam's life. She was thirty-five, newly sober, broke and raising him alone, with the help of friends, her church and her best friend Pammy, who learned during that year that she had cancer. The journal records the colic, the exhaustion and the overwhelming love.

How long does it take to read Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year?

About 6 hours (251 pages), or about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day.

What should I read after Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year?

If you liked it, try Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah, Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant? by Roz Chast or A Grief Observed by CS Lewis.