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Cover of My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry by Fredrik BackmanMy Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry
Modern · Fiction, Fantasy, Young Adult

My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry

by Fredrik Backman
2015 · 384 pages · Fiction
Lifetime bestseller
≈ 10 hours to read · about 3 weeks at 30 minutes a day

What it's about

Elsa is seven and different, and her grandmother, seventy-seven, is crazy, the kind who fires paintball guns at strangers from her balcony. She is also Elsa's best and only friend. When her grandmother dies, she leaves Elsa a series of letters to deliver to people in their building, and Elsa discovers the true stories behind the fairy tales she grew up with.

Why it's worth reading

It spent 53 weeks on the New York Times bestseller lists. It's funny, heartbreaking and full of love, from the author of A Man Called Ove.

You'll love it if you liked

Good to know

It mixes real life with Grandma's fairy tales. Britt-Marie, one of its characters, gets her own book.

By the numbers

73.5Must-Read Score
  • Readers63 out of 100 · counts 42%
  • Critics0 out of 100 · counts 14%
  • Bestseller62 out of 100 · counts 34% (its stronger lane)
  • Buzz0 out of 100 · counts 10%

Critics and Bestseller are two ways to earn a place: a book's stronger one counts more. Buzz rewards recent bestseller weeks and prizes, so older books start at zero. The parts combine into the Must-Read Score, shown on a scale where the best book we found scores 99 and the last book to make the ranking scores 50.

Where it ranks

Why it made the list

Bestseller
53 weeks on the New York Times bestseller lists since 2016

Reads as

Adventurous, Epic

How we rank

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Quick answers

Is My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry worth reading?

Yes. It spent 53 weeks on the New York Times bestseller lists. It ranks #951 of the 2,816 books in our ranking, with a Must-Read Score of 73.5 (the best book we found scores 99).

What is My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry about?

Elsa is seven and different, and her grandmother, seventy-seven, is crazy, the kind who fires paintball guns at strangers from her balcony. She is also Elsa's best and only friend. When her grandmother dies, she leaves Elsa a series of letters to deliver to people in their building, and Elsa discovers the true stories behind the fairy tales she grew up with.

How long does it take to read My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry?

About 10 hours (384 pages), or about 3 weeks at 30 minutes a day.

What should I read after My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry?

If you liked it, try A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman, Anxious People by Fredrik Backman or Beartown by Fredrik Backman.